This kid started Lacrosse Camp on Saturday.
He has been playing with his stick, helmet and pads for weeks.
Weeks.
4 of his boy cousins are doing the same camp- so there are cousins to play with and cheer everyone on. Aunts and Uncles to watch and be supportive.
So excited to go, asking constantly when he gets to go play!
Saturday was the day.
Justin and Barker go down to the change rooms to get his gear on while the girls and I head up to the bleachers to watch. He goes out and is warming up with all the other kids.There looked to be about 50 kids on the field.
Pretty soon the coach divides up the kids in age groups and Barkers group starts warming up by running after a coach. He's running, he's running... and now he is crying.
So Justin runs back down to the floor and I'm all wondering what happened.
1 min later a text from Daddy, come here.
So I go down. Barker is sobbing.... full out splotchy and snot filled.
To many kids and he is scared.
I hold him for a bit, get him calmed down.. explain that he is going to play Lacrosse and if he is scared I will stay close so he can look at me for reassurance.
He whines and cries he doesn't want to... but I convinced him to come out and watch.
We watch for a bit. Holding hands and giving hugs. He stops crying and I put his helmet back on.
On to the field he stands, with me behind the glass right behind him.
Being encouraging. Soon he is interested in the game the kids are playing with their Lacrosse sticks, he is done crying. And I say "You can play that game! Your great with your stick. I will give you a candy if you go try!?" 😏
Off he goes.
He played the rest of the hour with everyone. His cousin Beckett was playing on the field and it helped immensely that he could go stand by him and play by him.
My little Barker has a bit of anxiety when it comes to large groups of kids.
Hopefully he will enjoy Lacrosse, if not we are going to stick with individual sports for a while.
Scootering.
Skateboarding.
Skiing.
He came off the field with smiles all around.
Asking when he gets to go again.
Wish us luck people.
Wish us luck.