Brother does not speak.
He wont say Momma or Dadda or Ball.
He yells to let me know what he wants.
After 17 months of this and no speaking Mothers intuition peaked.
So just to be sure, I spoke to our Doctor. I mentioned I wanted him checked, to be sure that everything was working correctly- so here we are 2 months later. After seeing a pediatrician and her ruling our Autism and Downs (very upsetting appointment) we got sent to the audiologist.
It went ok.
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In the first test, above, a small earpiece is placed in the outer part of the baby's ear. The earpiece emits clicking sounds into the baby's ear and the microphone in the earpiece detects nearby sounds. The sounds should echo in the ear canal. If there is no echo, it is a sign of hearing loss. Brothers came back very slow, sluggish.
Brothers eardrums are vibrating to slow. He cant hear words clear enough to learn to speak. At least that was the first assessment.
The second test he wouldn't even hold still for. It is another microphone placed in his ear, but he has to hold still and be quiet for at least 15 seconds. Ya that didn't happen.
The third test is a series of sounds and lights. He did great….. er for the most part.
All in all he didn't really pass. The next step is another test. From the one appointment they can't do anything, he needs to fail twice. The audiologist was overly confident he would fail. So we head back the end of December for his second test. Its tubes after that. Apparently tubes can help drain infected fluid - like when kids get lots of ear infections. AND when the ear drum is having problems moving because of normal fluid.
We are REALLY REALLY hoping tubes will fix the problem.
I want to hear him say Momma and Dadda.
I want him to talk and hear my voice.
He will concur the world someday.
And we are going to watch him, regardless of what happens now.